Most high activity forums have little to no censoring, or are about a topic that is constantly having new things to talk about, for instance, a forum about movies, or 4chan or redit. You can only ask what the best goth band is so many times before people just ignore the post. And wtf, no personal story is true? That doesnt make much sense.
The main reason I stick on the board is to promote the scene, or in hopes of finding a young would be goth/rivethead and teaching them the ways before they turn into and idiot (just ask Eevee). I hate City Club with a passion, as do alot of people, and since your main meet up is at city, and no where else accept maybe once or twice a year, it makes it hard for alot of people to connect to this forum.
I could care less if someone is currently horny. I care about the music, which is really what the scene is about. When someone like say, DJ Saint posts a great write up about an up and coming industrial band and gets maybe 2 posts (usually from other DJ's, meanwhile the "what have you masturbated with today"thread gets 6 new hits, it makes you wonder. I will still post hear and when I see a DGNer I will be happy to say hi, but its pretty obvious why things are a little slow around here.