Okay, I've heard this from no fewer than five guys in the last month ..what is it with you guys?? why not chase a girl on occasion..you should never settle for anything less than what you WANT... i read that somewhere.. if you wait for some girl to chase you, you may never be pursued by anyone worthwhile. Then you'll be lonely and miserable and only with freak girls that do the chasing, (not that this is a bad thing)... It just may not be what you want.