I'm not usually there due to family obligations. Sitters are hard to come by and I'm losing one of mine because she's moving to Tel Aviv in August. Other reasons stem from the fact that it's just not a good place for conversations. The local bar is closer, there is no 30 minute drive, I don't have to pay for parking, the restrooms always have toilet paper, I don't get frisked, I can bring my cell phone, I can bring my eyedrops (without them thinking it's liquid acid) and there is no cover charge. Add to that the ability to sit down without getting your ass wet from someone's spilled drink and the ability to actually hear what your companions are saying...these reasons all add up to why I don't try extremely hard to go anymore.