~Tszura~

Heard from a little Nightgaunt birdie that this thread popped up. 😄 I'm 48, and was active on the board when I was in my early 30's. The format feels different now than it did then, even though its not. "It's not you, its me." 🤣 Just reading this thread, though, has me feeling like I don't know when I'll be back. I want to want to, but in this thread alone there was so much "big D" energy, and people getting off on being labled as pains in the butt, I honestly don't know if I can take it. The "I'm too old for this sh#t" energy is alive and well within me. Popping back on again as all the older members do, I think has a lot to do with nostalgia. We want to feel the same about it all as we did, but maybe thats just not possible anymore. We're all different. And this is where I'll stop because I'll just keep rambling otherwise. **darkkeeses**

Exactly! Saw this on FB, and thought it was funny. XD http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2014/07/09/330133378/flop-life-what-if-we-all-acted-like-we-were-in-the-world-cup?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_content=20140709

Congrats to Germany!! They kicked arsch! (and hoden!) lol I saw the news reports of the riots afterwards. So stupid.

I understand the need to identify him, but I agree with his father, they should have allowed him to continue to rest right where he was where his family knew he was happy.

Excellent suggestion above. He has to be willing to work with you. If not, then the choice is there for you to make. None of us were born with our partners, so we can live without the other, it just sucks in the beginning. Time is a great healer, though. It's not an easy thing to live with to walk away, but if the other person can't make it, then you have to be strong for yourself, and continue to live.

I got ma'am'd at 25, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. Now it just makes me laugh. And, Ow! My back! lol Went out with a few other DGN'ers the other night, and we were all remarking about our age, and the funny tolls on the body it brings. Sure feels good to laugh about it, though. This is definitely a funny list~ Thank you!

This is the saddest song I've heard in a long time. Makes me tear up, and puts me in my happy "sad place." The video is bloody rotten, though. Aguilera in all her posing glory....yawn. The old couple is what gets me. It's not really her choice to die, so "say something, I'm giving up on you" really doesn't apply. The video is worse than Birdemic, and Sharknado combined, lol. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2U0Ivkn2Ds&index=3&list=RDEqbojbu5Z-w

Torn, I hear ya. When bits and pieces come in, its hard to keep everything straight, especially when not everyone is on the same page. I try not to be on FB any more than short bursts because it was sucking too much of my day, so I did not see any of the "hey, lets get back on for a day" business, and knew nothing about that. I heard people were getting back on, and thought, with a happy face, "why not?" TronRP gave us all a very hearty Welcome Back, as did LilyLu, and that was truly appreciated. We're back. Some of us will stay, some of us won't. Can we all please just embrace it, go with it, and have a good time? http://f.kulfoto.com/pic/0001/0020/8L7VS19504.jpg

Are we seriously going to try to argue about this? We came back because some of us haven't been in contact, and we missed old friends. We also remember how awesome this place was at one time, and there is always hope that it can and will be that again. We have not been weenies in the least, but here we go with the need to "call" people out on things. You could have done this in a private message. Maybe this kind of thing is why people left in the first place. Am I going to get banned for this now?

Totally agree with what has been said above! I had a co-worker go through this recently. She had been married for 13 years, still loves the man deeply, but he had been doing everything you mentioned above......gambling, not paying taxes, getting caught drinking and driving. She gave him an ultimatum last year at about this time and told him how much he was hurting her, and basically fucking up their future. She told him to get his shit together, or she was going leave. She got a second job to pay off some of her extra credit debt in case things didn't go well, and they didn't. He was picked up again for drinking and driving, which cost her a ton of money. She said she dropped him off after picking him from jail, she went to work out and got a little Zen. When she went home, he said "You're going to leave me aren't you?" "Yes, I am. What you did was your choice, not mine. And now I have my choice, and I chose me." My heart broke when she told me because I know how difficult it was to make that tough decision. You can't go down because of someone elses stupid choices. You want more for yourself than he is able to give you, and not only that, he is holding you back from what you want for yourself. Don't ever let someone hold you back. I don't know you personally, but anyone who even contemplates this in their life deserves way more than what they're getting. You don't have to stop loving him, but you have to save yourself. I know its a scary thought to seperate, but if he's not willing to change, then things are only going to get worse. So you're either going to have to make changes on your own, or accept the fact that you could end up with less than nothing, and, worse case scenerio, end up homeless and hungry with nothing to your name accept debt. If he's not going to change, things will be much better on the other side of the road. <3

Ahahahahahaha! It's da trooof!! ;P Love you guys!

I'll tell you in a few days........after that "rape" feeling goes away. Just kidding! I'm excited about Zee Par-tay! Thank you so much for starting it LillyLu! **Muwah!**

BEST POEM EVER!! And my sentiments exactly XD

Holy smoke-a-reenos! I remembered my password, LOL! After two years of not logging in, I wanted to take a peak at what was going on. There seems to have been a stirring on another site which peaked my curiosity. I thought I may be enterning the Mouth of Madness, but am I really just entering the Mouth of Haggis? I love all of the people that I'm still in contact with from here, and I can truly say that even though I have met a few down right dirty buttholes, most of the people here have been truly wonderful, and I'm proud and greatful to have them all in my life. And TronRP, you are such a refreshing burst of light and energy. I remember you posting over two years ago, and you're still going strong. YOU are the reason DGN stays afloat. I still hope to meet you someday.