Destroit

Anyone going to Mars Bar tonight? : (aka, you should)

ALL...? Damn...does he clean shit also?

Boyfriend position...? Confused... . You mean missionary or in front of the stove?

That's EXACTLY how I know you have a life...

I'm so gothfended that you think The Cure is actually considered goth.

If he has a penis then he's pre-qualified. Congrats kat

Tauren.

My roommate, Tom, has an up-and-coming leveling guild that Pest and I belong to called Eviscerate. We're looking for any level player to join our guild, which is mostly leveling oriented. Any specs, roles, etc. We play for horde on Nathrezim, if anyone might be interested PM me plz and I can send you an invite . We're really trying to get members, and having it be random people is not as cool as having people we know from the DGN community.

Chatting with Eevee on AIM this morning, I was telling her about how we have a new tenant. "That means I'm up to four guys in my house. You should have seen the symphony last week. Timata was moping our living room while Vampyro was doing the dishes and Pest was making me a sammich. The universe was clearly in perfect harmony at that moment, although I would have loved a Killian's and a wife beater to complete the whole scenario."

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Hi. I'm up. Just sittin' here leveling my druid.

Oh wow, haven't seen you around here for awhile. Been okay?

Happy birthday, hoping to come down and visit you on a warm day soon because there's nothing more I love in this state than Southwest in the springtime.

Knew that I wanted to grow up and be Ogre as far back as I can remember...which is probably 9th or 10th grade sometime.

I would give my right nut to be this dude if only I had one left to give.

Then imo, you are clearly not insecure in your decision, which is great .

Agreed, for both perceived selfish and unselfish reasons.

I've noticed there are distinct types of women and men that try to talk you into having kids in a preachy way. Men will press on women, even women who are not their girlfriends, that we have to have children. These are also the same men who go by the rhetoric that women HAVE to be a certain way and men HAVE to be a certain way. My THEORY behind this is that these men are insecure deep-down and lay this down in a false pretense of "order", an order that they control. It is an ideal of control whether they realize it or not (because it's interesting to know many don't REALIZE the reason why they do this, they just do). Women who tend to do this are either ones who had children and are not happy with it and the whole thing with "misery loves company" kicks in. Other women who tend to this are the types who were either raised to believe they have to be that way, normally by either their father or rules enforced onto their mother by their father, or general notions they've picked up from friends or immediate society. In my mind, they're mentally compliant due to nurture. And NOTE...because I know someone will either misread me or put words in my mouth, this is what I believe to be accurate regarding child-ZEALOTS, not people who have kids but do not force the notion that "everyone needs babies" on other people. It is also my opinion based on what I know to be true regarding psychology, and I'm clearly not an expert. I truly believe that anyone who pushes ANY idea, not just presenting the idea, is doing so out of insecurity, which in turn creates a control issue, and this just enforces that.

Oh...I also like my hips NOT cracked in half permanently. And I don't want mom tits, I know it's not a guarantee it will happen, but with my body type I could see it as a definite possibility. Guess I'm selfish a little bit after all .

Joey, I not only think it's NOT selfish to not want kids, but it's the other way around. The fact that you're willing to create a consciousness out of thin air for your own validation and enjoyment only to know that being will grow old and die, with no guarantee of any afterlife, is disgusting. I have NEVER been able to wrap my mind around it. MAYBE if you are TRUELY a "believer" I can understand why you would consider it a non-selfish act to bring a person into the world, but I always wondered how people who have any doubt about an afterlife can have the cojones to play God like that. It took me a long time when I was little to not hate my mother, and the only real reason I "forgave" her (remember, this was with a child's mentality) was because I was a surprise baby. I know some people will say "well, why not just enjoy it while it's here?" and I STILL can't fully comprehend that mentality no matter how hard I try. I also hate those "well it could be worse" type things when things are going wrong, I think of it as false reassurance. You shouldn't be happy just because things CAN be worse because things ALWAYS can be worse.

Everyone I know is getting pregnant and becoming bored and miserable. Pestilence and I are still WINNING! :

Will do, buddy.