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Advice for talking to the opposite sex Or, same sex if you prefer. Whatever makes ya happy!

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Posted 10 February 2010 - 11:48 AM

View Post*Siren*, on 10 February 2010 - 11:02 AM, said:

Which one? :evil:


Are you seriously asking me this? YOU??? *Facepalm*
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Posted 10 February 2010 - 12:57 PM

View Postphee, on 10 February 2010 - 09:31 AM, said:

Well you also probably knew it was honest, and most importantly that I didn't want anything from you...


In my observation if someone in a club setting is complimenting another.... usually they want something.....

Very true. Perhaps that is why I didn't mind it, lol



I dunno.
I don't really get hit on at the club, now that I think about it. Just get asked to dance sometimes and I kindly refuse. Or the random people with lame pick-up lines. Like when I went to Necto the last time I wore cat ears and got THE WORST pick-up lines, lmao

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Posted 10 February 2010 - 01:00 PM

View PostEevee, on 10 February 2010 - 12:57 PM, said:

Very true. Perhaps that is why I didn't mind it, lol



I dunno.
I don't really get hit on at the club, now that I think about it. Just get asked to dance sometimes and I kindly refuse. Or the random people with lame pick-up lines. Like when I went to Necto the last time I wore cat ears and got THE WORST pick-up lines, lmao


One can only imagine....

Thats the thing.... I found it comforting that while I felt very nervous and scared around beautiful women... one of them finally told me: Phee, we are just as frightened of you as you are of us....
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Posted 21 February 2010 - 08:54 PM

Eye contact.

If you can make it, hold it for about 2-3 seconds and SMILE goddammit!
(god such a turn on)




If you're interested in a woman, instead of staring, check for body language like Raev had suggested.


I usually smile and cock my head to the side, I like to approach but I tend to naturally pose a challenge...

Most of the time if a man picks up on my ques and approaches with confidence and composure I'm interested.


But If I'm not interested in him, I tend to back away, cross my arms, and look around me.
I don't have any trouble rejecting him.


If you want to look available ladies....remember, you will look available to MOST men, and you need to drop the nice girl "I don't want to hurt him" bullshit and learn to reject men (and women)


rejection is protection.


For THEM.


Who wants to waste their night talking to a broad that isn't even interested.


amirite?

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Posted 21 February 2010 - 09:27 PM

View Postasphyxian_doll, on 21 February 2010 - 08:54 PM, said:

amirite?


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Posted 21 February 2010 - 09:30 PM

yo

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Posted 22 February 2010 - 01:02 AM

See I have never used any sort of vocal approach with the ladies...it always been body language. I guess that has alot to do with the setting since the music tends to be loud at concerts. I have one easy approach...look for the girl that is too close to the mosh pit and she doesn't want to be there. All you do is put your arms around her WITHOUT touching her to keep her from getting into the fray. I can honestly say that 7 times out of 8 they take charge when the storm calms...the other time you get a very nice "thanks" which is just fine. In short you just have to rise above the dick and assholes out there...you can be a "bad boy" without being like those morons...
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Posted 22 February 2010 - 09:06 AM

Don't respond to dating site profiles with something like this:


I MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR BUT YOU TRUN ME ON.I KNOW YOU ARE A NICE LOOKING AND DON,T NEED ME.

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Posted 22 February 2010 - 09:21 AM

View Postpomba gira, on 22 February 2010 - 09:06 AM, said:

Don't respond to dating site profiles with something like this:


I MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR BUT YOU TRUN ME ON.I KNOW YOU ARE A NICE LOOKING AND DON,T NEED ME.


Hey... no fair bringing up my old adds from when I was single.... *cries*
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Posted 22 February 2010 - 11:22 PM

View Postphee, on 22 February 2010 - 07:21 AM, said:

Hey... no fair bringing up my old adds from when I was single.... *cries*



Your spelling has certainly improved these days.






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Posted 23 February 2010 - 12:27 AM

Charisma.

Have a bit of self respect and charm, and be your lovely charismatic self. Be confident, but don't be an asshole. Just talk, have a conversation about anything. Watch for cues.
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