I am not sure how I feel on this subject,society dictates one view from the "normal"standpoint,but normality itself in argueable subject.
I myself have had acceptabity issues in the past,still dealing with the years of oppressing views from peers,family,and religious practices.
I recently was enlightened to the fact that my son has a relationship with a man,he thought I would disown him.
I do not understand the attraction,but who am I to say it is wrong.
As far as the restroom thing is concerned,a toilet is a toilet.